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If you’re trying to research – and find – a new mattress, the choices can feel overwhelming and the possibilities endless. But here’s the thing: there’s no such thing as a universal, one-size-fits-all “best” mattress. Your perfect mattress will depend largely on how your sleep position and your sleep concerns.
Whether you sleep on your side, back, stomach (or combination), this guide will help you understand the options and choose the most comfortable mattress for your specific sleep style.
Before diving into specific mattress recommendations, let’s talk about why your sleeping position matters so much. The way you position your body while you sleep directly impacts your spinal alignment, pressure points, and overall comfort level. When your mattress properly supports your sleeping position, you’re less likely to toss and turn, experience aches and pains, or wake up feeling unrested.
Here’s what makes each sleeping position unique:
Side sleeping is the most common sleeping position, used by roughly 70% of sleepers. Side sleepers need extra cushioning around their shoulders and hips to maintain proper alignment throughout the night, while still getting enough firm support to keep their spine straight.
Back sleeping requires a balance of support and pressure relief. A back sleepers’ mattress should support the natural curve of their lower back, while providing enough give to cradle their body’s contours.
Stomach sleeping demands the firmest support, as a sinking midsection can strain your back and neck. This is why side sleepers tend to prefer firm to extra firm mattresses.
Combination sleepers, or those who switch positions throughout the night, need a mattress that can accommodate multiple positions comfortably – and one that isn’t so soft that they get stuck doing so.
If you’re a side sleeper, you know the struggle of finding a mattress that cradles your pressure points without leaving you feeling like you’re sinking into quicksand. Side sleeping puts concentrated pressure on your shoulders and hips, so pressure relief should definitely be your top priority.
Memory foam mattresses consistently rank as the top choice for side sleepers, and there’s plenty of science to back up their popularity. Memory foam’s viscoelastic properties allow it to contour precisely to your body’s curves, providing targeted relief for your shoulders and hips without sacrificing on support for the rest of your body.
What makes memory foam particularly effective for side sleeping is its ability to distribute weight evenly. Instead of creating pressure points where your body’s heaviest parts press into the mattress, quality memory foam cradles these areas in order to reduce stress on your joints.
For side sleepers, a medium to medium-soft mattress (typically rating 4-6 out of 10 on the firmness scale) usually provides the best balance of support and pressure relief. This firmness level allows your shoulders and hips to sink in just enough to maintain spinal alignment, without compromising overall support.
Back sleepers often have the easiest time finding a comfortable mattress because this position naturally promotes good spinal alignment. However, that doesn’t mean any mattress will do. Back sleepers need specific features to ensure optimal comfort and support.
Back sleepers have the luxury of choosing from virtually any type of mattress, but memory foam and hybrid mattresses tend to be the most popular choices.
Memory foam mattresses excel at contouring to your body’s natural curves while providing consistent support. They’re particularly beneficial for back sleepers who experience pressure points or need extra cushioning around their lower back.
Hybrid mattresses combine the contouring benefits of foam with the responsiveness and support of innerspring coils. This combination can be ideal for back sleepers who want the pressure relief of foam but prefer a more responsive mattress feel that makes it easier to change positions.
For most back sleepers, a medium firm mattress (rating 5-7 on the firmness scale) provides the best balance of support and pressure relief. This firmness level supports your body’s natural curves while preventing excessive sinkage around your midsection.
The key is finding a mattress that maintains the natural S-curve of your spine. Too soft, and your hips may sink too deeply, creating an uncomfortable arch in your lower back. Too firm, and you may experience pressure points along your spine and other pressure-sensitive areas.
Stomach sleeping is the least common sleeping position, and for good reason – it can be challenging to maintain proper spinal alignment when lying face-down. However, with the right mattress, stomach sleepers can enjoy comfortable, supportive sleep.
Stomach sleepers need firm support more than any other sleeping position. When you sleep on your stomach, your midsection is the heaviest part of your body, and without adequate support, it can sink too deeply into the mattress. This creates an unnatural arch in your spine and can ultimately lead to back pain and discomfort.
A firm mattress (rating 7-8 on the firmness scale) helps keep your spine in neutral alignment by preventing excessive sinkage around your hips and stomach.
For stomach sleepers, the choice between memory foam and hybrid mattresses often comes down to the balance between comfort and support. Stomach sleepers should prioritize a firmer mattress, and many prefer hybrids as a result. Hybrids’ individually wrapped coils allow for easier movement (and less of a “stuck” feeling), while their supportive core helps prevent the spine from arching unnaturally. That said, sleepers who are looking to prioritize pressure relief for their chest and midsection can find their perfect fit in a firm memory foam mattress.
If you’re someone who tends to switch positions throughout the night, you’re what sleep experts call a combination sleeper. This sleeping style presents unique challenges because your mattress needs to accommodate multiple positions comfortably.
Combination sleepers should pay special attention to how easily they can move on their mattress. Memory foam, while excellent for pressure relief, can sometimes create a “stuck” feeling that makes changing positions more difficult. If you’re a combination sleeper who loves the benefits of memory foam, look for responsive memory foam formulations or consider a hybrid mattress that combines foam comfort with responsive coil support.
For most combination sleepers, a medium firm mattress (rating 6-7) provides the versatility needed to accommodate different sleeping positions. This firmness level offers enough support for back and stomach sleeping while providing adequate pressure relief for side sleeping.
If you tend to sleep hot, temperature regulation should be a top priority in your mattress selection. Traditional memory foam is notorious for trapping heat, but modern innovations have largely solved this problem.
Look for mattresses with:
For couples, motion transfer can make the difference between a restful night and a series of sleep interruptions. When your partner moves, gets up, or returns to bed, you shouldn’t be disturbed.
Memory foam mattresses excel at isolating motion because the dense foam absorbs movement rather than transferring it across the mattress surface. Hybrid mattresses with individually wrapped coils also perform well in this area, as each coil moves independently rather than as a connected system.
Memory foam was originally developed by NASA and has since become one of the most popular mattress materials. Its viscoelastic properties allow it to respond to heat and pressure, contouring to your body’s unique shape while providing excellent pressure relief.
Modern memory foam comes in several varieties:
Latex mattresses, made from natural or synthetic rubber, offer a unique combination of contouring and responsiveness. Unlike memory foam, latex provides immediate response to movement, making it easier to change positions during sleep.
Natural latex is inherently cooling and antimicrobial, making it an excellent choice for hot sleepers or those with allergies. However, latex mattresses tend to be more expensive than other options.
Modern innerspring mattresses feature individually wrapped coils that provide targeted support and excellent motion isolation. When combined with foam comfort layers in hybrid designs, they offer the responsive support of coils with the pressure relief of foam.
Pay attention to how you naturally fall asleep and the position you’re in when you wake up. If you’re unsure, ask your partner to observe your sleeping positions, or consider keeping a sleep diary for a week.
Your weight significantly impacts how you’ll experience different mattress types and firmness levels. Generally:
Consider factors like:
Take advantage of sleep trials offered by reputable mattress companies. A 90-365 night trial period allows you to test the mattress in your own home and ensure it meets your needs. At Nectar, we offer a generous 365-night home trial because we believe you need time to truly experience how a mattress affects your sleep.
Most mattresses, including memory foam options, require a breaking-in period of 30-90 days. During this time, the materials adjust to your body weight and sleeping patterns, and you may notice the mattress becoming more comfortable as it conforms to your specific needs. A high-quality mattress is an investment in your health and wellbeing. With proper care, a premium memory foam or hybrid mattress should provide comfortable sleep for 7-10 years or more.
Choosing the most comfortable mattress for your sleeping position doesn’t have to be complicated. Whether you choose memory foam for its pressure-relieving properties or a hybrid for its responsive support, the key is finding the right match for your unique sleep style.
At Nectar, we’re committed to helping you find that perfect match. Our carefully engineered mattresses provide the comfort, support, and durability that all types of sleepers need, backed by our industry-leading 365-night trial period and Forever Warranty™. Because everyone deserves the gift of exceptional sleep.
This article is for informational purposes and should not replace advice from your doctor or other medical professional.
Side sleepers should prioritize memory foam mattresses with medium to medium-soft firmness (4-6 on the firmness scale). Look for quality memory foam that cradles your pressure points without sacrificing support for the rest of your body.
Back sleepers have the most flexibility and can choose between memory foam or hybrid mattresses with medium-firm support (5-7 firmness rating). Memory foam excels at contouring to your natural curves while providing consistent support. Hybrid mattresses combine foam’s pressure relief with responsive coil support, making position changes easier. The key is maintaining your spine’s natural S-curve without excessive sinkage around your midsection.
Stomach sleepers need firm mattresses (7-8 firmness rating) more than any other position. Your midsection is the heaviest part of your body when lying face-down, so firm support prevents excessive sinkage that can create an unnatural spinal arch. While both memory foam and hybrid options can work, many stomach sleepers prefer hybrid mattresses because the individually wrapped coils provide excellent support and make movement easier.